Many people experience feelings once the gavel has dropped and the final decree of divorce is signed, including relief, grief, and joy. But, even after the legal fight ends, living post-divorce may be complicated. After that, you still have a few financial and legal formalities to complete. When …
3 Reasons Why Your Partner Shows Anger Towards You
Humans are designed to experience a wide range of emotions in various circumstances. One of the emotions that shield us from dangerous circumstances is anger. As a result, during your marriage, you and your spouse will argue. Nonetheless, it is a reason for caution if you are married to someone …
Focus on Families: Divorce and Adults
Although it may be little comfort if you are currently facing divorce, recent estimates indicate that you have lots of company. More than half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce; the majority involve children. Divorce is one of the most stressful life events a person can …
Divorce and Retirement
Divorce after 50 affects your retirement plans significantly. It is the catalyst to a longer tenure at your job. In an ING U.S. study about marriage and money, divorced couples feel more unprepared financially for retirement than those couples who are married. On average, a divorced couple saves …
Divorce Counseling
Divorce can be a very stressful experience. From the moment you choose to separate, and for a period after the divorce, you are likely to experience feelings of sadness, fear, and loneliness. Even if divorce is the right choice for you, it will still be unsettling. Seeking psychological …
Divorced Parents: Things to Do
Schools out, and you will probably be spending more time with your kids now in Orange County. Make this time special by planning ahead to create some terrific memories together. Here are a few suggestions for inexpensive activities: 1) Nature Walks and/or Bike Trips Depending on the age of …
Forgetting About Your Ex
Ending any relationships is challenging, but ending a marriage is the hardest. Divorce and separation are two of the most dreaded things in this society, and rightfully so. However, holding on to romantic feeling for your ex-husband or wife will only make the process longer and harder for you. …
Transitioning From a Two-Parent Household
Transitioning from living with your spouse and raising your children, to raising kids alone, can be a much bigger challenge than you might imagine. There are many issues that you will need to work through post-divorce or separation, but trying to assume the responsibilities of both parents and learn …
Gray Divorce
The divorce rate has doubled for people over 50 since 1990, according to the AARP. This is for a variety of reasons: people living longer, children not being used to stay together, and a smaller stigma about couples splitting. Also, there are more women working, and some are earning more than their …
Initial Steps to Divorce Recovery
How you handle the first few months of a divorce may determine how quickly you recover. Some people bounce back, begin dating and don't feel extreme depression after only a few months. Some people take years to recover, and some people never really get over their divorce. It's a great idea to make a …