Orange County Divorce Help Archives - Page 2 of 8 - Bohm Wildish & Matsen

Coping With Anger During Your Divorce

Anger has a way of eating us up inside. Instead of making things better, it just makes us bitter. It’s natural to have some angry feelings over a failing marriage, particularly when facing the prospect of a messy divorce, but if you hold on to that anger it can overwhelm your life and negatively …

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The Smartest Decision a Parent Can Make During a Divorce

As parents, it is essential to develop a partnership that encourages teamwork. However, when a partnership is shaken, i.e., in a divorce, you undergo an imbalance that requires extra support to keep you grounded. Unfortunately, as we get older, we teach ourselves to handle everything that is …

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Ten Simple Rules to Help Keep Your Kids Out of The Middle of Your Divorce

It easy to get caught up in the emotions of a divorce and forget that your children have no say in the matter. They will be impacted, for better or worse, by the way you and your spouse handle yourselves during the divorce process. Here are ten simple rules that will help keep your children out …

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Top 10 Threats Made During Divorce

A divorce can be very trying and contentious under the best of circumstances. Often, the anger spills out as verbal threats intended to intimidate or coerce. The following is a list of common threats that are made by vindictive spouses during divorce. If physical abuse is threatened, please contact …

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Five Steps to Make Divorce as Easy As Possible

Divorce is difficult but you can obtain a better outcome by following these five simple steps. 1) Be as loving as possible with your spouse. A good start can lead to a better outcome. This is divorce step one and it could determine the path of a what could be a very long road. Don't be combative …

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How to Improve Your Credit Score Before a Divorce and Why It’s Important

After your divorce, your credit score can go a long way toward making your transition a little easier or a lot more difficult. Your credit score will come into play if you want to refinance your home to get your ex-husband off the mortgage or if you want to rent an apartment after you’ve moved out. …

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Top 5 “Gray Divorce” Challenges

If you are over the age of 50 and have decided that it’s time to "move on" from your marriage, you are not alone -- you are part of the gray divorce boom. Even as divorce rates across the United States decline, your age group is bucking the trend. Baby boomers are now divorcing at the highest rates …

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Divorce and Retirement

Divorce after 50 affects your retirement plans significantly. It is the catalyst to a longer tenure at your job. In an ING U.S. study about marriage and money, divorced couples feel more unprepared financially for retirement than those couples who are married. On average, a divorced couple saves …

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Millennials Grow into Divorce Age

We thought it would be worthwhile to look at the millennial generation as it begins hitting its prime marriage (and divorce) years. How is this newest adult generation (born between 1982 and 1997) changing the landscape of marriage and divorce? Cohabitation Instead of Marriage According to the …

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What to Do About Your Rental Properties During a Divorce

Dividing your assets during a divorce doesn’t have to be complicated. Maybe you’re willing to give your husband the dining room set as long as you get to keep the living room furniture. If you and your spouse own rental property, however, things can get a lot more complex. Do you keep properties …

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