Have you ever noticed that there’s all kinds of conflicting information “out there” about anger? You’ve probably heard that frequent anger is deadly. Maybe you’ve heard that anger is an important part of getting through your divorce. You might think that anger is bad and you shouldn’t express …
Coping With Anger During Your Divorce
Anger has a way of eating us up inside. Instead of making things better, it just makes us bitter. It’s natural to have some angry feelings over a failing marriage, particularly when facing the prospect of a messy divorce, but if you hold on to that anger it can overwhelm your life and negatively …
Can You Really Be Happily Divorced? Yes!
Divorce Advice Even though statistics show divorcees can be more depressed and even die earlier than married individuals, there are ways to be happily divorced. Is it really possible to create a happy divorce? Yes! One way to stay positive during this stressful time is to avoid going to divorce …
Divorce Counseling
Divorce can be a very stressful experience. From the moment you choose to separate, and for a period after the divorce, you are likely to experience feelings of sadness, fear, and loneliness. Even if divorce is the right choice for you, it will still be unsettling. Seeking psychological …
Divorced Parents Will Fail
If you're a divorced parent, you understand the deep desires to protect your kids, ensure that they have a "normal" upbringing, and that co-parenting or single parenting won't negatively affect them. It's (or it should be) every parent's wish to make sure their kids and taken care of. Especially if …
Sex After Divorce
Bohm Wildish: Divorce Advice - Here's a taboo topic for women. You've been with the same man for five, ten, or thirty years and now you're divorced. You'll most likely start dating again. Depending on how quickly you want to take things, you'll eventually start having sex again... most likely. …
Five Lessons Learned from Divorce
Bohm Wildish: Orange County Family Law - People always say that we learn and grow the most when life isn't easy. But is that true when dealing with something as awful as divorce? Absolutely. No one wants to divorce until they realize they really need to, and it can be devastating. But there is a …
Four Things To Never Tell Yourself Post-Divorce
Bohm Wildish: Post Divorce Tips - We can all be our own biggest critic. When a big part of your life has changed or you're in a transition period and can't find someone to blame, many of us blame ourselves. This can be very unhealthy post-divorce or separation, and it can really hinder your recovery …
Hate Won’t Help
We see people every month from Orange County and Los Angeles, California looking to divorce who start fuming when speaking of their soon-to-be-ex. Divorce can be very trying, and it's ok to be upset. But once the divorce is over, it's time to move on. People tend to forget that holding onto to the …
Recently Divorced Holiday Tips
For many people, this Christmas may be the first holiday time spent as a single person in many years. While the holidays are a great time of joy and happiness, they can also be a time of sadness and challenges for many. Joanie Winberg, CEO of the Association of Divorce from Women and Children …