California Divorce Guide Blog

The Family Law firm of Dishon & Block provides this blog as a supplement to our California Divorce Guide.  The Guide is a thorough explanation of the divorce process in the state of California.  We will provide articles, advice and tips that will help you manage your divorce financially, emotionally, and with respect to your family.

Nothing will replace the professional guidance you will receive from the representation of a family law attorney, but it’s our goal that the California Divorce Guide will enable you to understand the divorce process and court procedures.  Knowledge will help you to navigate the California family law system with less stress and confusion – regardless of whether you choose to retain a divorce lawyer or not.

Recent Articles

Mar 24, 2012

Divorce Advice: Who Keeps the House?

Who gets the house in a divorce?

Perhaps the greatest challenge in a divorce is deciding who gets to keep the house. In fact, the battle over the house can be the most emotionally draining experience of your life.

So how do you make your housing transition go more smoothly? Firstly, don’t take any action until you’ve hired a qualified family law lawyer who can guide you regarding all the legal and financial issues about the family home.

In most states, neither spouse can force the other to leave the home while still in the divorce process. Unfortunately, continuing to live together under the same roof in the midst of a divorce can cause untold stress and tension for husband, wife and any children involved.

Mar 21, 2012

Should You Have a Divorce Ceremony or Divorce Party?

Dishon & Block: Divorce Advice
Divorce is normally a sad occasion, but more and more ex wives and ex husbands are considering a divorce ceremony. Sometimes called a divorce party, these rituals can be life changing for those who want to move forward emotionally after a difficult split.

Of course, it is most important to hire a qualified family law lawyer for the best possible legal outcome, but a divorce party can help you “close the door” on your relationship in a positive way.

In Japan, divorce ceremonies are a cultural phenomenon. Unhappy couples come together in a public ceremony to mark the end of their relationship. They invite friends and family to dress up, enjoy a buffet meal and then end the marriage by crushing their wedding rings together with a heavy gavel.

Mar 20, 2012

Who Gets the Pets in a Divorce?

Increasingly, pets have become a bone of contention in divorce cases. Yes, cats, dogs and even exotic animal companions are more and more being treated like child custody cases when it comes to divorce.

So what’s the best way to resolve pet custody issues? A qualified family law lawyer can help negotiate “pet custody” when it comes to your divorce.

In fact, a 2006 study by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML) found a significant increase in “pet custody” cases since 2001. This means pets are increasingly becoming part of the divorce process because they are now viewed as part of the family much like children.

Mar 15, 2012

Tips on Explaining Your Divorce to Your Children

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Perhaps the most difficult part of any divorce is telling your children. In fact, breaking this news to your children may be the most important and nerve-wracking conversation of your life. So, how do you prepare for it?

Remember, your children will ask you lots of questions just minutes after the initial shock of hearing about the split. That’s why getting advice from a qualified family law lawyer before “the talk” can help you, your spouse and, most importantly, your children.

Children are most often upset because they are worried about their immediate security. But having emotional, situational and even legal answers ready for them can help ease their worries considerably.

Mar 13, 2012

How Can Women Increase Income after a Divorce?

Women who keep their infrastructure strong during a divorce may be able to increase income.

Are women doing better at getting their share of the financial divorce pie in the 21^st century? Yes, so says a recent Pew Charitable Trust story. Part of Pew’s Economic Mobility Project (EMP), the study is encouraging for women when it comes to income levels after a divorce.

The EMP report shows income increased by 25 percent or more by 20 percent of all divorced women across the political spectrum. This compares with just 11 percent of women in the 1970s.

One way women can ensure more income equality when it comes to divorce is to hire a support team, including a reputable family law lawyer, financial planner and tax accountant. Unfortunately, the study also shows that 50 percent of spouses come out of a divorce in a worse financial situation than when they started.

Mar 8, 2012

Divorce Stress Syndrome and Your Health

A growing body of research shows both men and women deal with “divorce stress syndrome” during and after a split. Yes, emotional stress from a divorce can cause both short- and long-term health problems. One way to alleviate these challenges is to hire a well-rounded support team, which can include a qualified divorce lawyer, a financial planner and a therapist.

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