Divorce Questions California

What is your intent in wanting a divorce?

From: The Eight Questions You Need to Ask
By Bruce Derman, Ph.D. and Wendy Gregson, MS, LMFT

What is your intent in wanting a divorce?

Any agenda, other than ending the marriage, is an indication that you are not ready to divorce. If you are hoping that through the divorce the other person will change and start treating you better, realize how much they have lost or pay for how much they have hurt you, you are getting a divorce for the wrong reason.

Divorce has no power to right wrongs nor change people's hearts and minds.

Divorce can only do one thing, end a marriage, and in so doing free each person to make new attachments to new people.

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