As you know, divorce is bound to bring about a good amount of changes. With these changes, there are bound to be some things that you are not prepared for. While it is a fact that some things are unpredictable and inevitable, take a look at the list below that was put together to help you not be caught off guard as you are entering into this new phase of your life.
- It is very possible that you may not have as much money to spend every month as you are used to.
- You might not get to stay in the house. In fact, the best solution may be to have the house sold.
- Dividing marital property can be tricky, especially when it comes to household items. Be prepared to part with your some of your favorite things.
- The judge might not sympathize with your plea to share pet visitation. You should set up a visitation with your spouse so you can both see the pet.
- Prepare for your pension plan to be divided between you and your spouse. This is a very good possibility, even if the funds in the account are from your employer.
- If you have children, they may go around you when you say “no” by asking the other parent the same question.
- You may not see the friends that you used to spend time with quite as often as you used to.
- While it may be difficult to get used to at first, you may not be invited to events where all of the guests are couples.
- You might run into your former spouse when you least expect it. It is also possible that you might run into him or her when they are with a new partner.
- While you may be lonely at first, know that you will grow from this experience. It is always a good idea to surround yourself with a great support system. Be sure to lean on family and friends.